Issue #10: Breaking up requires finesse

AJ Lank, Editorial Editor

Welcome back to All About Girls with AJ!  Now, today’s topic is one that isn’t quite what most of you may have hoped.  Today, I will be introducing the topic of how to properly break up with someone.

Now no one wants to be broken-up-with, and having to do the breaking up is rather uncomfortable as well; however, there are right and wrong ways to do this.

First let’s begin with the wrong ways to leave someone. To begin, DO NOT EVER break up over text! This is one of the worst ways to accomplish this.

Another terrible way to move on  is to have a friend do it. This is showing that you do not even have the courage to do it yourself.

Now, let’s get into the proper technique. First off, give the person a reason, and just be honest. Be gentle with the way you tell him/her, and always do it in person.

Breaking up face to face might be hard, but it will allow the person to fully understand why you are doing it.

Second, honesty is the best policy. Be completely truthful with the reasons you give as to why you feel the need to end it.

Lastly, treat people the way you would want to be treated. So if you don’t want to be broken up with in a text, don’t do the same to them.

Overall, just be mindful of the other person’s feelings, and be sure that,  if you feel the need to do this, do it the right way.

That’s all for today’s issue of All About Girls with AJ. And remember Happy Wife, Happy Life still applies.